Journaling

(Photo by Jan Kahanek on Upsplash)

Journaling is an important tool to use on a regular basis to reach our inner voice. The words or pictures it brings out on paper help us learn more about ourselves, gain new insights, and express our inner most thoughts. There are no rules with journaling, as any topic is fair game. No one but the writer will see the journal entries, which allows for complete openness of thoughts and ideas.

What better way to understand myself more deeply than to write my inner most thoughts on a regular basis in a journal. Why do I think the way I do? What motivates me? What are my dreams?

In order to access our deep inner thoughts and ideas, it is best to journal with a quiet mind. How many individuals can say that they have a quiet mind, especially in the fast paced, stressful world that we live in, with deadlines, responsibilities, and limited time. That’s why an optimal time to journal is first thing upon waking up, when the mind has just woken from its connection to the subconscious mind, and is still relaxed and quiet, prior to the issues of the day reaching the forefront of the mind.

It will take practice to get to the point of truly opening up in the journal, especially on an ongoing basis. As with any new habit, it will take time to get use to the process. Perhaps start with a goal of writing for one minute a day. After some time, you’ll be surprised how words will flow out to fill the page.

What is one small step you can do to add journaling to your day?

A drawing from my journal back in 2014.

Dreaming 2

Dreams have many purposes that can assist us throughout our life journey. They are the connection to our unconscious mind. We can use dreams to learn from our past, to analyze our current situations, and to explore our possible futures.

Everyone dreams. But it is possible that each person dreams differently. Relating to our five (or six!) senses, some people dream in black and white, others in color. Some people hear music, while others see artwork. Actually, we all have the ability to dream using all of our senses. It’s just that it may be more natural for certain individuals to have certain senses dominate during a dream. However, with practice, it is possible to be in tune with all our senses during dreams.

Dreams can impact the body while we sleep, making the dreams feel real to us. However, the brain releases chemicals to stop the body from moving during dreams. Unfortunately, not everyone remembers their dreams. Some reasons why people do not remember their dreams include: not getting enough sleep, multi-tasking, over-thinking and worrying. Many people who do remember their dreams may only remember bad dreams. Yet, we all have good dreams too. Through a dream practice, the good dreams can be remembered as well. The key is to pay attention to our dreams, as they can represent many different meanings.

There is a lot to be learned about ourselves through our dreams. All we have to do is set an intention and then pay attention. We spend one-third of our lives sleeping, so there must be many purposes that it serves, even if science is unable to identify all of these purposes. Tapping into our dreams is a powerful way to keep us moving in directions that are appropriate for us.

What is one small step you can do to practice dream work?

Dream Big.  And, Dream On.

If interested, here is my original Dreaming post from October 30, 2018…

https://calmnsensehealth.com/2018/10/30/dreaming/

Monkey Around

(Monkey photo by Jamie Haughton on Unsplash)

The Mirriam-Webster Dictionary defines ‘Monkey Around’ as, “to do things that are not useful or serious”. Examples include: “We just monkeyed around all afternoon.” And, “A young scientist monkeying around in the lab.”

Has your boss ever reprimanded you for NOT monkeying around enough? No, you say. Well I say yes, do it.

Most of us are busy with our list of things to do each day. Jumping from one to the next. Racing to meet deadlines. It is a never-ending cycle. Eventually, fatigue sets in as we continue at our speedy pace. Make breaks a part of your day. And why not make them fun. Daydream and  goof-off during your breaks.

Daydreaming is referred to as “a good example of a trance”, in the textbook, Integrative Medicine (Self-Hypnosis Techniques chapter by Steven Gurgevich, PhD). “In a daydream, we are aware of where we are and what we are doing, but at the same time we are absorbed in the experience and sensations of the daydream. This includes our thoughts, ideas, and images.”

Perhaps our daydream can be viewed as a little getaway from our physical location, allowing us to go anywhere we want for our little break. And when we return back to our physical surroundings, we may feel more refreshed and ready for the rest of our daily chores.

There is another benefit of taking breaks to either use our imagination or to quiet our mind. Taking time away from a challenging task may lead to ideas popping into our mind at random times that provide answers on how to move forward. Has this ever happened to you?

Since the start of our blog challenge this week, a few of my ideas came to me while goofing off in the forest. In the past I would not jot down these random thought ideas, and would forget them. So now I am sure to bring either my cell phone or small voice recorder with me where ever I go.

These random thoughts do not always pop up when we are in the middle of a lot of thinking. Many times these ideas will appear out of no where, during a time when our mind is quiet or having fun.

So get out there and monkey around some. Watch your productivity increase, your mental well-being improve, and your creativity shine.

Hey, hey we’re the monkeys…

Nature’s Calling

I enjoy taking time out of my day to go exploring in the woods. How about you?

It is a nice getaway from the hustle-and-bustle of the day. Whether I head out for a brisk walk, a run, or a slow meander, my goal is always the same; to enjoy a mindful, meditative experience in the great outdoors.

My usual visit is to a park near home that has many trails in a forest that connect with each other. So I can make the adventure as short or long as desired. I have a favorite spot that I’ll stop at for a sitting meditation, using a fallen tree as my chair, overlooking a small brook that converges into a gentle river.

Depending on the time of day, I may find deer wandering, woodpeckers rattling their favorite trees, squirrels rustling, and birds chirping. No bears… yet, lol.

At the beginning of my journey into nature, my mind may be in a state of chatter, pondering items on my to do list, or working through the challenge of the day. Yet, when my feet begin taking steps, I purposely implement a process of steps that ultimately calm my chatter down. Well, not for the entire trip. The chatter is a natural state that the mind enjoys, and it comes and goes throughout.

First, I will place my attention on my nostrils to feel my breathe go in, and out. In, and out. Then, I begin to count my steps to myself as I take them, counting either 1-2-3-4 or just 1-2, 1-2. Sometimes doing these two steps together is enough to lessen the chatter. But other times, the chatter gets louder.

Then, while still focused on my breathing and counting, I will open my ears to the sounds, and my eyes to the sights, of the forest. I may also add another step of visualizing my breathe flow in and out of my heart space. And finally, I may switch from counting my steps to reciting a mantra.

I’ll do this multiple step process for a certain duration, and then stop on purpose, going back to just focusing on my breathe. And at that point, I find, many times, that the chatter does remain at bay, allowing me to truly enjoy the peace and serenity of my natural surroundings.

If you are unable to get to a forest right now, the 7 minute video below will take you there, if you like. Yes, nature is calling!

What is one small step you can do to add mindfulness and meditation to your day?

Stretching

We all need to stretch our muscles, whether we live a sedentary lifestyle, or an active one.

For example, sitting for long periods of time causes our muscles to get stiff and weak. If sedentary individuals do not stretch, their bodies may become more vulnerable to muscle pain and tightness. Over time, their muscles will pull on their joints and trigger significant discomfort.

And for those who do exercise, there are several potential effects of not taking the time to stretch correctly after exercise. Muscles and tendons that are not stretched properly after exercise may be more susceptible to stiffness and injury.

Many years ago, I watched my father play his last game of softball. He hit a ground ball to the third baseman.  On his run to first base, he pulled a hamstring, causing him to leave the game. Afterwards, he decided to hang up his glove, bat, and ball for the last time. I have always wondered what would have happened if dad had a history of stretching, or decided to begin stretching after his hamstring healed. Would he have been able to continue playing?

The textbook, Integrative Medicine by David Rakel, MD provides a chart relating to FLEXIBILITY:

For Disease Prevention: “Maintain a range of motion by bending and stretching in daily activities.”

For Basic Health: “Perform 2-4 limitation-specific stretches AFTER activity, 1 repetition; hold about 20-30 seconds.”

For Enhanced Fitness: “Perform 6-10 whole-body stretches AFTER activity and BEFORE competition, 1-2 repetitions.”

For Performance-Level Fitness: “Add yoga, Pilates work, and/or facilitated stretches with a partner.”

I have had experience with Vinyasa Yoga (one form of yoga). I found this style of yoga to be quite challenging (and beneficial) as it helps improve physical strength, mental strength, and deep breathing. We would hold certain poses for short periods of time. During this time, muscles would get tired. To get through it, I would focus my attention on my breathing. And as a result, my mind would become free of thought for the remainder of class, and for an hour or two afterwards. I highly recommend any form of yoga as one method to explore stretching.

Another aspect that certain types of yoga provides is the practice of balance. For example, some poses require standing on one leg.

Another quote from the textbook states, “Balance and agility are the most often overlooked components of fitness, yet poor balance and its associated risk of falling are potentially the greatest health concerns for many older adults.”

The goal of stretching is to promote greater range of motion. Stretching provides improved neuromusculoskeletal function, creating less pain and more motion. It is important to stretch slowly, gently, and to the point of tension, while taking deep breathes.

Paying attention to how our muscles feel on a daily basis may help identify the specific muscles that need extra stretching at that moment.

YouTube is a great place to find stretching and yoga videos for any level of flexibility, and for any muscle group that needs attention.

Stretch yourself!

What is one small step you can implement to improve your flexibility?